I just want to say that this might not be because they think the material is damaging. This could easily be because of how they see the women in porn as lower and disgusting and they would feel ashamed if their wife and/or daughter participated in this.
I had a talk with my father about this woman in porn, who had engaged in scene where she had a gangbang with over a 100 men. And I said I thought it was outragous, not just because it was porn, but also with so many men, she can’t exactly have time to meet and get to know them all, so most of them would be strangers, just comming up to her and having sex with her. And is she in a position where she can turn one down, in case she doesn’t feel right with this particular person? no, she is not. And if you are not in a position to turn them down, even if you want to, it is rape.
That was my concern. My father’s concern? The men. To be guy number 50 and know that 49 men had been before you. That was the disgusting part according to him. 
because men who watch porn, (or just men in general) have hatred towards women in porn and prostitution like no other, because these women are “used” and to have a daughter or wife that is “used” is shameful to them. 
Don’t fool yourself into thinking that because a man don’t want his wife or daughter to do this, it is to protect her from the horrors of porn and the damage she will be subjected to. It can just as easily be a question of “property” a feeling of ownership towards the wome in his life. 
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